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Saturday, 19 February 2011

What to Do With a Damaged Heart

heartbreak


The other night I went to see Passenger play at The Annandale here in Sydney. I'd never heard his music before, let alone know who he was. Passenger's performance opened a Pandora's box of memories, regrets and emotions inside me which I thought I had a handle on. I'm a sucker for good lyrics, and Passenger's songs are full to bursting with profound and succinct turns of phrase.

It brought back to the forefront of my mind the disheartening state of dating and relationships in this city. I've been single for over a year now. I've met new people and made new friends, yet there is one recurrent observation I've made. Everyone has baggage. And not just run-of-the-mill kind of baggage, but self-inflicted freight trains. I really can't get over it. I know so many people who have come out of long term relationships and just can't seem to pick up the pieces of their lives.

Still in love with their ex's...or can't decide if they want them back or not...dabbling in 'casual' relationships and wishing it was someone else... 

When will people realise they are still young with long lives ahead of them - this is a new beginning - it's exciting and filled with promise and potential. Sure we will carry scars from our past relationships with us, but we get to choose whether we are disfigured by them.

Whatever happened to falling in love again?

Wednesday, 16 February 2011

Everyday Dancers

video

My friend, the wonderfully talented Christine Jane, started a little group over on Facebook the other day. It's called Everyday Dancers and it's aim is to get you dancing and letting loose everyday. No fancy moves, costumes and sets required. All you need is a camera on your computer, some silly props if you desire and 5 minutes of your time.

To celebrate Valentine's Day and being awesome single ladies, we organised to dance like loonies to Message of Love by The Pretenders. After a few ciders, pulling on bunny ears, cat masks, heart-shaped sunnies and feather boas we got cracking. We did it all in one take and uploaded it as it was. Even my kitten Poe got in on the action! (Little tip, turn the sound up at the end when the music fades to hear Christine doing a brilliant impression of Gollum...)

Sunday, 13 February 2011

Quick Reference Guide
to the Tarot


So you've got your Major Arcana deck at last and you're ready to roll with the readings! But, you have no idea what you're doing. No worries, here's a quick reference guide to get started.

The best way to start reading the Tarot (and a great spread for parties) is the 3-Card Spread. It's particularly good when you're only using the Major Arcana cards as they represent broad concepts rather than more specific themes. Once you get the hang of the Major Arcana you can move on to more complicated spreads using the Minor Arcana as well - great for detailed guidance to more specific questions if you really get into the Tarot. But for now, this is a spread everyone can do...
  1. Formulate your Question. The Tarot cannot answer 'yes/no' questions, so think of a question which asks 'how' e.g "How can I improve my chances of a promotion at work?"
  2. Shuffle the cards. Concentrate on your question while you are doing this.
  3. Divide the cards into three roughly equal piles (face down).
  4. Place one card from the top of each pile face down next to each other (like the image above).
  5. Turn each card over. Don't worry if any are upside down - just leave them as they are.
  6. The First Card represents the past regarding your question.
  7. The Middle Card represents the current situation regarding your question.
  8. The Last Card represents the possible future regarding your question. 

Quick Reference Meanings
The Fool 
UPRIGHT: birth, new beginnings, fresh starts, journeys and exploration.
REVERSED: blind faith, naivety, foolishness or potential disaster (look where you are going!)

The Magician
UPRIGHT: (representing a person) someone with charisma, a public speaker, doctor/healer; (representing possibilities) power, resourcefulness, action and application.
REVERSED: (representing a person) a trickster or con-man; (representing possibilities) broken or empty promises, inability and obstacles.

The High Priestess
UPRIGHT: potential, instinct, secret knowledge - a mysterious and powerful card.
REVERSED: chaos, indecision, a loss of secrets and knowledge.

The Empress
UPRIGHT: creation, abundance, nurturing, femininity, creativity, assurance.
REVERSED: destruction, neglect, abandonment. 

The Emperor
UPRIGHT: control, authority, command, organization and foundation.
REVERSED: childishness, inconsistency, unpredictability, aggression, loss of control and authority.

The Hierophant
UPRIGHT: spiritual guidance, humility, teaching, guidance through troubled times, conformity, tradition, respect, ceremony.
REVERSED: inflexibility, stringent conformity, corruption, controlling and hiding information/power.

The Lovers
UPRIGHT: union, trust, communication, finding that other half of ourselves (be it person, cause, career, religion etc).
REVERSED: separation, wrong choice, temptation, mis-communication, predominantly physical connection rather than mental/spiritual.

The Chariot
UPRIGHT: focus, control, skill, determination, confidence, motivation and leadership.
REVERSED: defeat, cowardice, aimlessness, loss of control and direction, non-action.

Strength
UPRIGHT: compassion, strength, balance, courage, patience, understanding.
REVERSED: cowardice, fear, timidity, taking on more than you can handle.

The Hermit
UPRIGHT: solitude, introspection, investigation, learning, enlightenment, wisdom.
REVERSED: isolation, paranoia, alone and lost in the dark.

The Wheel of Fortune
UPRIGHT: luck, transitions, change, destiny and chance.
REVERSED: back luck, misfortune, good things don't turn out the way you expected.

Justice
UPRIGHT: balance, legalities, fairness, equality, truth, responsibility.
REVERSED: unfairness, injustice, imbalance, corruption.

The Hanged Man
UPRIGHT: new perspectives, sacrifices, vulnerability and selflessness, taking time out.
REVERSED: stubbornness, selfishness, refusing to let go, unwilling to make necessary sacrifices. 

Death
UPRIGHT: an end, change, inevitability - a period of darkness to be followed by rebirth.
REVERSED: limbo, eternal grief, disrespect or ignorance.

Temperance
UPRIGHT: synthesis, merging, healing, moderation, balance.
REVERSED: making things worse, inability to integrate, loss of drive/desire.

The Devil
UPRIGHT: addictions, temptations, obsessions we refuse to let go of, loss of inhibitions & restrictions.
REVERSED: eluding temptation, too afraid to take chances.

The Tower
UPRIGHT: downfall, exposure, upheaval, sudden shift.
REVERSED: status quo continues, the truth will remain hidden.

The Star
UPRIGHT: hope, healing, cleansing, rejuvenation.
REVERSED: false hope, pessimism, cynicism, a time of darkness - alone, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually bereft.

The Moon
UPRIGHT: dreams, fantasy, artistic talent, creativity, psychic ability, romance but also hallucinations, insanity, wildness.
REVERSED: wild and primitive, anarchy, order leading into chaos, mental breakdown - bad psychological time ahead.

The Sun
UPRIGHT: reason, light, order, clarity, new beginnings, youthfulness.
REVERSED: poor logic, bad reasoning, ignorance, unable to recapture youth, rejection of logic and reason.

Judgement
UPRIGHT: faith, honesty, resurrection, transformation, letting go of (or freeing oneself from) something that you've been hanging onto.
REVERSED: burden, inability to let go, surrounded and overwhelmed by burdens, no escape.

The World
UPRIGHT: achievement, mastery, completion, traveling to dispense knowledge.
REVERSED: stuck in a comfort zone, agoraphobia, fooling oneself, inability to complete what you've started.


So that's a quick start! The Tarot is many-layered and this quick guide does it no justice. But perhaps it will peak your interest and you'll delve further. Stay tuned for more rounded explanations of each card, it's symbols and meanings and how to interpret it. But for now, happy reading!

Saturday, 12 February 2011

Guide to the Tarot
An Introduction


I get some interesting reactions when people discover that I've designed and produced my own Tarot deck. The Tarot is generally perceived as a bunch of mumbo-gumbo junk that eccentric people who wear a lot of purple are into - or worse, as a tool of the devil (I guess that stereotype doesn't fit with the image people have of me). In fact, the Tarot grew out of simple playing card games somewhere in the distant past and had little to do with divination or devil-worship.

By Ervín Pospíšil at cs.wikipedia [Public domain], from Wikimedia Commons

If you look back to the Renaissance, when allegory was a key feature of art and culture, you'll see how a deck of cards like the Tarot could develop. Avia Venefica of TarotTeachings.com talks about the Triumphs - parades of the era which featured costumes representing Justice and Strength. These parades celebrated life and the human condition and their themes became stable images in Renaissance art and culture. But the true origins and purpose of Tarot is unknown, and theories abound.


I decided to design my own Tarot deck for various reasons. I've always been interested in different ways of interpreting the world - all those odd things on the fringes - and the Tarot is just one of those things. I also love its long and mysterious history, steeped in human experience and everyday life rather than it's spiritual/divination associations. All the images in the Tarot are timeless and just as relevant today as they were hundreds of years ago - which makes for a lovely connection to the past and a higher experience of the human condition. I use the Tarot not to tell me my future, but to remind me how to live my life. Often I already know what I have to do to deal with a certain situation, but it helps to be reminded and given some guidance.

If you have the time I highly recommend reading the TarotTeachings.com site and also the Aeclectic Tarot site (which has a lovely interpretation of the cards as a story of The Fool journeying through life - an easy idea to wrap your head around when you're starting out).



A slight offshoot is this video by The History Channel from TopDocumentaryFilms - exploring the history of the playing cards, which includes the connections with the Tarot. You'll understand why I talk about the Tarot as a reflection of art, culture and human experience after you watch this.

Up next is a quick reference guide to reading the Tarot - with an easy spread and quick reference meanings for each card to get your started!

If you're interested in getting your own copy of my Tarot deck (Major Arcana edition), I have a Payvment store on my Facebook page, but you can also email me and I'll whip up a Paypal invoice for you (you don't need a paypal account and you can pay by credit card if you wish).